When walking through a toy or candy store, it is virtually impossible for a small child to get through without wanting something inside. Although at that age, I thought that rather than just wanting it, I needed it. My parents would continuously tell me that there is a large different between a need and a want, although being the stubborn kid I was, I wouldn't ever give it up. I would see something in the store that caught my eye and I demanded it. I NEEDED it. I would go over every reason in the book as to why I needed it and how detrimental it would be if I did not get it. My parents could have easily purchased me these gifts, however I am now glad that they did not enable my behavior no matter how much of a fit I would throw.
Now when I look at purchasing at item that I think I need, or just really want, I try to ask myself if this is actually an essential. I try to consider if there are cheaper alternatives or if this is something I will continue to use, or just get tired of it after using it only a few times. Although I have been taught many 'life lessons' through out my life, I think this one will stick with me forever and I will always hear my dad's voice in my head asking if I really need it or if I just want it.
-Mariah. :]
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dude this is so true, when i was little i would see stuff and also demand it, but now thta i make the majority of my purchases i think about things like you said, and also if htere is anything i need more. but i like the topic.
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